Church and political elders are to blame the need to assign separate days for Halloween, All Saints Day and All Souls Day. They wanted to control our beliefs so they set these stupid traditions as a reinforcement of their power to impact our lives each day.
We have two dead family members: An elder brother who was stillborn some years before I was born and my father, who died July 2008. There’s no longing feeling for either of them, and don’t go self-righteous to say I’m heartless or whatever. The elder brother, I never met, my father, I remember him almost every single day with envy and joy, him being in the after life if there’s such a place – so I don’t need a holiday as an excuse.
A few days back while on the beach, I tweeted, “…for the dead don’t give a shit!” This is what I choose to believe. If they do, and any of the dead were like me, things would be a little different:
- Only the actual dead would be allowed to ask for candy, and will be given when they tell us where they hid the goddam keys
- The fellas who wear a “sexy ____” halloween costume should “get some”
- Remakes of any sort will be banned – when a thing has come past, let it be gone forever, just like the dead now
- Those benefiting from the dead will be stripped of that specific advantage to level the playing field
- Cemeteries & columbaries would be rendered obsolete – in such a congested world, I’d rather be a fertilizer or mixed in animal feed
- Yes for Halloween parties, but please not under the pretense that its on the dead’s honor, man up & admit it’s all for you, the undead
- More online memorials for the dead, appreciating the e-dalaw and e-burial initiaves happening here in the Philippines for the jailbirds and the OFWs
So, in an undetermined time today, we’ll go visit my father’s ashes, celebrate mass & grab some grub. Meh. If my father were alive, he’d rather stay at home, enjoy some rum and cigarette.
For my brother that I’ve still yet to visit ever (Remember that story I shared a few years back on the circumstances surrounding his death?), I do remember you once in a while, wondering what you may have been if you held on, how you would react to what is happening here in the land of the living.
What’s weird now, probably part of growing old, is that I don’t have scary thoughts associated with the dead, death or the afterlife. It’s how I get there is what I’m more afraid of, and mostly the violent, criminal elements of the living.
I’ll be going around today and make a fun to-do-list for next year.
7 Billion People in the world, that is a scary thought, even if none of us are literal zombies yet. What about the food, the space, the ability to live humanely literally competing against each other to survive? But that’s another long blog post so go have your fun today with your dead and live to fight another day.
- Why Do We Celebrate Halloween (femaleimagination.wordpress.com)
- Day of the Death, All Saints Day (implicado.wordpress.com)
- All Saints Day and All Souls Day- Biblical or Not? (idkh.org)
- Day of the Dead, Part I: Honoring the Departed, Celebrating Life, in Mexico (indiancountrytodaymedianetwork.com)
- The Obligatory Halloween Post (sfnowak.com)
- 7 Billion People (greenlifegirl.wordpress.com)