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My Hunk Collection Collage

10 Aug

Presenting the men of my dreams, in no particular order!

  1. Steve Buschemi – The moment I saw him in Con Air (huh, you’d think I’d be falling for Nic Cage’s buff body and a choc full of hair? Noo waay!), I’ve always looked out for appearances of this dude. The latest one would be his film with Sienna Miller. There’s also his participations on Adam Sandler movies and another memorable one with Christina Ricci.
  2. Jack Nicholson – You make me want to be a better everything!
  3. Jean Reno – The Professional…professional. He’s a charming, quiet, strong man. Yum.
  4. Jeffrey Donovan – The voice and the wry, sarcastic, about to be hit smile does it for me with this guy.
  5. Richard Gomez – Ah, my childhood sweetheart that I’m still rooting for, wife, kid and taking on father roles and stuff. He’d always be the Perfect Filipino for me.
  6. Djimon Hounsou – The body to die for! Add to that the smarts and the taste for good, hmmn, boxers! I meant movie roles (Blood Diamond).
  7. Rober Knepper – He’s the most evil/lonely person in Prison Break, and he’s so good I really feel for his pain and why he became that way. He’s not bad-looking either. Now, give me some sugar!
  8. Clive Owen – Not so much when he’s clean cut and acting way cool. His gigs in Closer, The Inside Man, Sin City & Derailed where he was rough around the edges made me love him.
  9. Peter Stormare – As Lucifer in Constantine he already caught my eye. Being Abruzzi in Prison Break made me admire him more.
  10. William Fichtner – This guy’s everywhere, reminds me of Clint Eastwood (but more charming if need be).
  11. Sung Kang – This is the always clean Asian guy I’d see on American shows that I keep forgetting to find for the name. I know now, and I’ll see you in my dreams!
  12. Zach Braff – Now here’s the ultimate image of a geek I’d like to hang out with!

Post Mortem Crush Anatomy

24 Dec

My day is guaranteed to brigthen up if I have somebody to look forward interacting with each day so I made sure I had a lots and lots of crushes around.

Be it at work, in my neighborhood, at my parent’s house’s neighborhood or the threads I hang around at – there will always be several guys who will manage to catch my fancy.  Usually it is their brains or something they do that was carefully thought of.  I will never say out loud the names of these guys (not even to my closest of closest friends), just their codenames so I am never found out.

Superficially, there are also some cute or good smelling guys that I usually proclaim as someone I adore.  You, my dear reader, have probably come across into me gushing about them using the prefix Fafa.  At the end of the day though, these are not the guys I would like to be with because I humanize them – get to know a lot about what this guy can do and find out if they pass and realize –  ah, other than the qualities that made me take a second look in the first place IS NOT enough.

For almost 16 months, I happened to come across one guy who, in my perception, was a combination of both.  I always heard good stuff about him, and he happened to be cute.  So, I did my best to increase interactions, in an attempt to humanize him to see if I should pursue investing an emotional attachment on this person.

In the past couple of weeks, I have managed to humanize him and sadly, he failed.  The good stuff I heard, when looked up close, is starting to unfold as very far from what he really is.  All good press and what a let-down!

At this point, I would think that it ought to be a relief since the guy is in a relationship.  No more need to resort to “Sulot” strategies and stabs at my conscience.

It is just a pity, that’s all.  One less IDEAL guy to look forward to get in contact with each day.  Haaay.  Looks like I need to search for this good combo.

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